Taking Time to Listen

Taking time to listen can be beneficial in many different ways. From a relationship stand point taking time to listen to your partner is always a great thing because communication is strong factor when it comes to relationships.  Now if you come across a situation where you have a friend, a sibling, or even a complete stranger that's going through something and might just need somebody just listen and show that they care. Like I always say "We all just need somebody to shut up listen so you can vent !".

 So just remember just listen sometime and you will be amazed of the outcome you will have.

Past Relationships

Past relationships can either have a positive or negative effect on you. The negative effect could be you not wanting to let go or even you feeling like every person that you meet is going to act or treat you a certain way in a negative way. The positive effect could be you taking what happen in your past relationships and turning them it into a positive lessons that you can carry through life with you. It could also help you work on yourself as person to determine the good and bad flaws about yourself. Whether if the relationship was good or bad just look at and bring out the positive things about it while still realizing the negative things that took place.

Topic of the day: Is it Love or Lust?

Is it Love or Lust? Some people don't even know whether they are in love or caught up in lust. So do you know the difference?




                Please comment and say how you feel.

Trust

Trust is another powerful thing in life that gets you a long way from dealing with friends,family,or your  significant other. Building trust can be based on how you interact with people or the way you present yourself as person and what you stand for. Once trust is broken then people tend to pull back or even not deal with you anymore. However, trust can be regained under strict circumstances of the person who's trust you trying to regain. Always remember trust could lead success with your life and people that's in your life.

          So whats your dentition of trust?

Quote of the day: Empowerment

Empowerment consist of three great things Education, Networking,and Organization. This would be informational power that can be used as a power tactic to use to influence people in their everyday life.

Quote of the day #2 by Shannon Michelle : Discipline

You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage-pleasantly,smilingly, non-apologetically- to say 'no' to other things.

                                                     Shannon Michelle

Quote of the day : From Courtney Broome

There's a reason the rear view mirror is so small and the windshield is big. Where your're headed is so much more important than what you've left behind.

                                           Courtney Broome

Being Hesitant

Women tend to be hesitant with men when they are in that stage of getting to know each other. In most cases that's normal because women are on the road to opening up and really making sure if he's the right man for her. Now if you switch this around and the man is being hesitant with the woman on whether he should open up and give his all. In most cases its never like that but what if most men done that. How would women in today's time feel about that? Will women go along with it or just think its some type of mind game? So if you reading this post take time to think and leave comments and express how you feel about this post.

Relationships

Question of the day

Relationships do you love them or do you hate them? What is it about them that makes you can’t stand them, and what about them makes you wanna leave the one you with to start a new relationship wit you “USHER”. The fact of the matter is, is that 9 times out of 10 you will be in multiple relationships through out your life. These relationships may be long or short term, they maybe for just a period of time. Women what are you looking for in a relationship, are you just going with the flow or are looking for something serious. Men are we looking for just one of those one-night stands or are striving to be like our fathers trying to settle down and pass on the family name.

Please comment                                                                          Thanks, Dre Shipp

Emotions

Emotions we all have them but we show them differently. Its different emotions for different situations and relationships will bring the most simple but complicated emotions out of us. Female tend to be more expressive at times than a male but some males still show their emotions. Maturity plays a big role in stepping up to the plate and saying how you feel to you significant other. However, it always takes a bad situation to happen then emotions start to flowing. As human beings male or female its nothing wrong with expressing your emotions and saying how you feel just be real and honest about it.

        So you either take control of your emotions best as you can or let your emotions take control of you.

Commitment

Commitment is a powerful thing when it comes to relationships.Both males and females have to make a commitment in order for a relationship to go anywhere. A lot of people think of commitment when they think of marriage.However, commitment comes in the early stage of a relationship which leads to the question of marriage or no marriage. Some people also fear commitment which is interesting on different level.

     So do your fear commitment or not?

Understanding

Having a understanding is something that makes a situation or a relationship more clear on why that is apart of your life. Sometime that understanding might come in the beginning or even in the end. But at the end of the day the lesson you learned from that situation is what counts the most.

The inside is what counts

What counts on the inside is what really shows what kind of person you are no matter what judgement is placed on the outside image of your appearance as a person.